What do you truly want?

Figure out what you want. When trying to figure out if he is the right guy for you, you first need to discover what it is you want from him, your relationship, and life as a whole.

It's important to know what's significant to you and the values you hold dear. If you don't know what you're looking for, how will you ever be able to find it?

This includes knowing yourself well enough to feel confident in your goals, values, and other ideas that are important to you.

• Once you clarify your values to yourself, you'll soon start to notice whether he's the right guy for you.