Married Life Stinks? Here Are The Secrets To A Happy Marriage.

A long, successful, happy marriage is the goal of every bride and groom. 

However, a happy marriage doesn't just happen: it must be created and nurtured. It takes work.

Below are ideas, tips and suggestions to refresh your happy marriage toolbox. If you feel your marriage is in trouble, no time like the present to get started!

There might be a few secrets for a happy marriage that you haven't tried yet.

To improve upon or help save your marriage - click here.

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  • Step outside yourself.

    It's a good idea to consider what it's like to walk a mile in your partner's shoes. If you run into a conflict or disagreement, instead of concentrating solely on how you're feeling, consider your partner's feelings first.

    • Become good at saying "I'm sorry."

      Despite your best efforts, you'll make mistakes in your marriage. Studies have shown that the people slowest to apologize are the ones most likely to stay single or get divorced.

      • Make your relationship fun.

        An important aspect of lasting relationships is the capacity to enjoy each others company.

        • Be silly, tell jokes, and use self-deprecating humor once in a while. Have fun when you're around each other.

        Laugh together.

        Remember the good times you've shared. Talk about and relive them. Reminiscing about fun times helps keep couples together.

        Talk about plans for activities you both want to do in the future.

        Sharing ideas and setting goals together bring you closer together and ensure you stay there - together.

        • It's especially fun to plan to go out to lunch on Saturday to make decisions about your vacation plans and figure out together what you want to do.
        • Make brief contact with your spouse throughout the day.

          It takes only a few seconds to let your partner know you're thinking of them.

          • Place a two or three minute call to your spouse during your morning break. 
          • Send a text message. Text messages are particularly fun because you can make a statement, ask a question, or make a plan simply by tapping in a quick message. For example, you could text, "Can't wait to get home tonight," "I'm cooking your favorite for dinner," or "I love you!" 
          • Send a quick email to just say "Hi."
          • Be adventurous.

            Learn something new together. When you have adventure, your relationship feels fresh and exciting. Try these ideas or develop your own based on your mutual interests:

            • Take a ballroom, hip-hop, or country-western dancing class.
            • Go skydiving.
            • Try an exotic restaurant and order something you've never eaten before.
            • Change your appearance from time to time, just to make it interesting. Get a new haircut or color. Wear a different style of clothing.

            You get the idea. Do something different!

            Occasional surprises work wonders. For example, plan a surprise weekend getaway, a romantic dinner at home, or flowers just to say, "I love you."

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