Attracting Women: 4 Ways To Use Psychology
Attraction is simply a positive feeling that
one person has for another. It can be in the form of admiration,
love, friendship or lust. The factors that influence one person
to be attracted to another are similarity, physical attractiveness,
proximity and reciprocity.
This means having things in common. You can boost this by
picking up on things she says and forming connections. For
example, if she says she likes a certain film and you like
it too, say so, because that's a similarity that will increase
Don't make the mistake of telling lies here because she will
subconsciously pick them up and they will have the opposite
effect. If you didn't like the film, choose something else
to form your similarity. Maybe you like one of the actors who
was in it. With practice you can become very skilled at picking
out and focusing on these similarities.
Although you cannot control what type of guy a particular
woman finds attractive, you can make the most of yourself.
Be clean, spend some time and money on your haircut, wear the
kind of clothes that girls find attractive.
Being in good health is attractive but don't worry too much
if you are a little overweight, if you are short, stuff like
that. Some girls like these things, and many others will not
care if you make the most of what you have.
Within reason, a girl will be attracted to someone who is
close by, or someone that she sees often. If you see the same
girl on your way to work each day and you notice her looking
at you, you have a great chance with her. In a club, moving
around the room will help you get closer to more girls than
if you stay in one place. When she has had a chance to notice
you, get talking to her.
This simply means that we tend to like the people who like
us. This is also true of attraction. Don't be afraid to show
that you are attracted to a girl, because it will increase
her interest in you. Do not overdo it though. You need to be
somewhat of a challenge to her.
Of course, don't pursue someone who has shown that she is
definitely not interested. To have a chance with her, accept
her 'no' right away, stop focusing on her and go talk to someone
else, but try again another day.
These are the basics of the psychological factor in attraction.
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