The 5 Stages of Seducing Women
Now that you know the different situations
of seduction, you should be aware of the different stages of
creating a bond with her.
the awkwardness by indulging in light and informal conversation
so that the two of you can understand
each other. Create a connection.
yourself trustworthy and make her feel she knows you pretty
well. This is not about factual knowledge, but giving
her a sense that she is seeing the real you and can trust
you to act in certain ways.
her develop sensual or romantic feelings for you. Flirt.
physical touch in the relationship – not just friendly touching
which you may have done already if she
is a touch-centered person, but the kind of touching that
you would only do with a woman you wanted to seduce: holding
kissing, arms around her, close dancing.
to intimate touch, foreplay and sex. This usually requires
moving to another location and you should be prepared
to go through all of the earlier stages over again in the
new location, right from stage one, if necessary – though
be much quicker this time around.
You should always know what stage you are at with any individual
woman. As soon as one stage is successfully completed, it is
time to move on to the next. You must become skilled at knowing
the right time to switch to the next stage. If you move too
fast, she will be scared and reject you. If you hesitate, she
will think you are not very attracted to her.
With practice you will learn the skill of picking the right
moment for the next move. You must, however, keep the different
stages in mind even in your first attempts, so that you can
learn from any mistakes.
word about close dancing. In some situations, like a night
club or party, it is possible to do this too soon. You can
often start to dance next to a girl, make eye contact, and
then ask her for a close dance before she really feels she
knows you at all. This is unwise. Unless you are very lucky,
she will probably feel a little uncomfortable about having
reached this stage too fast and you will have to work much
harder at building trust later. You may end up in the real
bad situation of spending all evening on one girl, thinking
you are doing great, and then have her turn you down at the
end of the night because you didn't build enough trust earlier.
So rather than ask her for a close dance at that early stage,
talk to her on the dance floor or if the music is too loud
for that, ask if you can buy her a drink. Even if she says
no it's better to have her turn you down now when you can move
on to someone else, than have her dance with you now but disappear
when the club closes.
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