How To Win Over a Woman's Trust
When you are hoping to attract and seduce
a woman, you will need to know how to win her trust. Women
are taught to be cautious of men throughout their lives. Children
are told by their parents and teachers to be careful of strange
men and for girls this continues after they are grown up.
So when you want to attract a woman, you need to earn
her trust. This means treating her in a way that shows you will
not hurt her. This is not just a question of hurting her physically,
although this is certainly a factor. However, she also wants
to know that you will not hurt her and treat her badly emotionally.
A man who is impatient and tries to bully women or coerce
them into agreeing to a date is not likely to be successful
with women. There may be a few who will accept this kind of
treatment but most will run away. If you push a woman too hard
for her phone number, for example, she will become afraid and
will give you a false one.
A great way to win a woman's trust is to establish
In fact, this works for all relationships and you are probably
aware of it. For example, if you are stuck in an elevator or
involved in a dangerous or awkward situation with other people,
you will quickly trust the people who are in that situation
with you. A connection is created and a level of trust which
would normally have taken months to build up, is right there
Of course you cannot arrange to get stuck in an elevator with
every attractive woman that you meet - or if you do, you will
find that word gets around town and people quickly become unwilling
to enter elevators with you! But a great technique when you
first meet a woman and want to quickly win her trust, is to
create some kind of connection like this. Pick out something
that unites the two of you and sets you apart from others.
It will help if you practice doing this with almost anyone
you see at parties or in nightclubs. Even if you are not attracted
to the person and don't intend to talk to them, look for something
that could form a connection between you and imagine what you
would say. It will soon become second nature to you.
The important point with this technique is to talk about your
own feelings, not hers. It works best if it's some
kind of problem that you both have - you're dressed too smart, you
wish you could smoke, etc. Does it look like her shoes might
be uncomfortable? Don't mention her shoes, but create a connection
by saying you wished you'd worn your new shoes a couple times
before you wore them tonight.
You can win her trust in seconds by creating a bond like this.
Then you can reinforce it with touch. A touch on the arm or
upper back, or holding her hand for a moment, is ideal. This
will reassure her that you are interested and will take care
of her. Keep it brief to leave her wanting more.
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